When Will It End?

 

Over this past week, I have just been overwhelmed with the deaths and illnesses of extended family and friends from the scourge of this Delta variant. In addition, I have another friend who is in ICU with another illness who is not able to get the level of care that she really needs because the unit is full of COVID cases. 

One of the deaths was my husband's first cousin, Jim. He leaves a wife, two brothers, and a disabled sister who depended on Jim to help manage her affairs. 

The illness of a critically ill friend brings into sharp relief the situation we are currently in in Mississippi. We can get quite sick with other things that are NOT Covid. What happens when we can't get the care we need for something else? It's pretty scary. 

I am still in shock at the death of local attorney, David Sessums yesterday. Although he was a number of years older than me, he attended school with my husband and we had known him for years. He handled the closing on our house when we bought it 35 years ago. I bonded with David on Facebook this past few years. He loved to "stir the pot" with his posts and I enjoyed the "entertainment" of the comments, often posting the popcorn emoji or the "Michael Jackson eating popcorn" meme under these posts. I am really going to miss him. I find comfort in the fact that David really seemed to enjoy life and had the means to enjoy it to the fullest. 

Now, I just need a day where I don't read about the death or serious illness of anyone I care about. Please, talk to YOUR doctor about the vaccine if you are not vaccinated. Wear the mask! I know, I hate them too. I really do, but I wear them. Wash your hands. Keep your distance in public places. If you have other medical issues that make you especially susceptible, (I have known people who have died from the flu!) take extra care right now. This Delta variant is not going to last forever. My friends are precious to me and I don't want to lose another single one. 

Speed Limits

 

A few months ago, our insurance company asked us to install this "drive safe" gadget on our vehicle. If we were decent drivers, we could save money on our car insurance. It sounded good, so we agreed. 

There is an app on my phone that allows me to monitor how I am doing with this thing. It measures cornering, braking, and speed. For the first month, I really tried to watch my speed. Following the speed limits on some streets in Vicksburg can be a real challenge. 

Little did I know how obeying the speed limit would affect my interactions with other drivers. I was passed on curves on two lane roads. I was tailgated. And, on a few occasions, I was flipped off by the impatient drivers behind me. I truly feared for my safety a couple of times, just from actually obeying a posted speed limit!

Cornering was no problem for me. I don't like to take them at a high rate of speed anyway. But, braking! Now that can be an issue. I live on a road with LOTS of squirrels. I am not going to run them over if I can help it. And there are times when I think Vicksburg is one of the most likely places to have people pull out in front of me, forcing me to slam on brakes. My insurance company assures me that there is some level of forgiveness for this, but I'm not sure that there is a level of forgiveness that is required in my town. 

After a few weeks, I decided that it was more dangerous to obey the speed limit than to exceed it a little. I may not save any money, but at least I will be alive to drive!